trannychaser's blog

When I wrote my public profile and opened the conversation in the "Trannychaser Dialogues," I was considering reuniting with my first transmale lover. About a month and a half later, we have decided that we will not be getting back together but remain on good terms. I also was struggling with finding my voice as a member of the transgender community who also has more than one leg still in the gay male world.

Their is an angry tone in the introduction because issues of identity are close to us and can really hurt. Interestingly enough, somewhere around last February I developed a crush on a younger gay guy who seemed to like me as well. After he figured out that I was extremely active in transgender politics and considered myself a part of the transgender community he was honest with me about the challenges that he felt like my life presented to him in regards to being in a relationship with me. That is my nice way of saying, he was a dick.